About
We explore modern intimacy and only share what's worth your time.
Our approach to modern intimacy
Finding sexual wellness products that actually deliver is harder than it should be.
There's a lot out there, but not much that's clear or genuinely useful.
We wanted something simpler.
WeTriedThis is where we use & review products, and keep only the ones that stand out.
If something doesn't hold up, it doesn't make it here.
How we got here
This started as a side project between two people who spend way too much time researching products, talking about relationships, and wondering why intimacy still feels so awkward to talk about openly.
Over time, curiosity turned into recommendations, recommendations turned into conversations, and eventually into this website.
Why trust us
We test products ourselves and compare them to similar options in the same category.
We look for what actually works in real use, not what sounds good on a product page.
If something feels off, underwhelming, or not worth the price, we leave it out.
You won't find everything here. Only what's worth your time.
How we review products
We look at the same things every time:
Design and build quality
Does it feel well made, and like it'll last?
Ease of use
Is it easy to use, or hard to figure out?
Comfort
Does it actually feel good, or does it get uncomfortable?
Experience
Does it do what it's supposed to do?
Value
Is it worth the price?
Our editorial independence
Some links on this site are affiliate links. If you buy through one, we may earn a commission.
That's what keeps the site running. But it doesn't change what we recommend.
Products aren't ranked by commission. Brands don't write our reviews. Negative feedback stays in.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do you actually test the products?
Yes, as much as humanly possible.
We test products ourselves and compare them to similar options.
What matters most is what they're actually like to use.
Are your reviews sponsored?
No.
Brands don't pay for placement here. If it's here, it earned its place.
How do you make money?
We use affiliate links.
If you buy through them, we may earn a commission at no extra cost to you.
This helps us keep testing products and running the site.
Do you recommend products for beginners?
Yes, and we make that clear when something is a good place to start.
Not everything is beginner-friendly, and we point that out too.
Are the products discreetly shipped?
That depends on the retailer.
Most reputable sellers ship discreetly, but it's worth checking their policy before you order.